Long Distance Relationship

 Salam...

This morning I got a msg from someone n said to me that he did not believe in long distance relationship. Hah?? well..i could not say anything because it is his belief and perhaps he has gone a very bad experience with it. Honestly, i have been in long distance relationship for almost 8 years now and thanked God, everything goes well.

People may share different view about this kind of relationship. Yeah..it also has pros and cons. As long as we are honest n trust others, i think it should be ok. i believe long distance relationship can survive if both parties make the effort to keep the spark alive.  most people who involve in this kind of relationship would say about tears, the i-miss-him/her, sleepless night, long phone calls and etc. finally,  they will feel how sweet of this relationship when they have happy marriage in reality world. they will appreciate time together and spending the quality time after marriage. i guesss...(^_^)

However, if a person who does not want to involve in this relationship, maybe they have difficulty to trust others, they love spend most of their time with their loved ones, they do not have their own life..aha~ or they want to share experience together.

But, if u think he/she is THE ONE or MR/MRS RIGHT, just go for it. long distance relationship wasn't that bad. maybe u couldn't find someone like him/her who can touch your heart like he/she does. so, JUST GO FOR IT!!!! at least you will have a new experience and people always said that we learn from our mistakes. JUST GO FOR IT!!! and find your own answer about it. it doesn't matter long distance relationship or short distance, the most vital thing the way you sail your boat..(^_^) Pray to God and make effort to ensure it will success.

So..for the person i may concern, u should think twice before withdraw from this kind of relationship. 

"the quickest way to receive love is to give love, the fastest way to lose love is to hold on too tightly, and the best way to keep love is to give it wings".

Daa..see u again..(^_^)